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Happy childhood memories with her grandparents

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Interviewer: Thank you for accepting my interview. Could
you tell me when you were born? You don’t have to be too specific; just
“1950s,” “1960s,” “1970s,” etc. will do.

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I was born in the 1960s.

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Interviewer: Where did you live in China from 1966 to
1976?

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I mainly lived in two northern cities in Hebei Province --
Changli and Tangshan.

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Interviewer: You must have many memories of that decade to
talk about.

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Interviewer: But, if we only give you ten minutes -- in
other words, during the first ten minutes of the interview, what memories
directly come to mind?

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Interviewer: What do you most want to share with us?

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Based on my own experiences, I think it was a relatively
happy time. I mean, compared with today’s kids of the same age, I feel
that I was very happy at that time.

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Interviewer: [Is it] because there was no homework, no
pressure, and no exam-oriented education [at that time]?

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We still had homework, but not that much. Also, it seemed
like it was pretty easy to finish.

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I had a lot of time to play with my friends, although I
also did my homework after school.

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After I started elementary school, I spent most of my time
with my paternal grandparents in Tangshan.

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I remember that my family’s living conditions were not
so good, because my grandparents were greatly impacted by the Cultural
Revolution,

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so they were thrown out of a relatively large house and
only given one small room.

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There was almost no furniture in the room. We had a big
stool, and a small stool, and I sat on the smaller stool and used the
larger one as a desk to do my homework.

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After I finished doing homework, I went out to play with
my friends, jumping rope and playing hopscotch. I felt happy back then.

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Interviewer: I see. So, you don’t have many miserable
memories of that period, right? Your childhood was happy.

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Yes, I felt childhood was happy.

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Interviewer: Do you feel that your experiences during the
Cultural Revolution impacted your life after you grew up?

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Interviewer: Did that period of time have a particular
influence on your personal life, and if so, what was it?

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It’s hard to say. If the Cultural Revolution had not
happened, my family environment might have been very different.

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Right now, I can recall some memories [of that period]
that my parents told me about.

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For example, why did I end up living with my
grandparents?

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It was because my parents worked at a fruit tree research
institute, and my mother often needed to go to work in the chestnut groves,
such as in Zunhua,

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to gain firsthand experience by working with a grassroots
unit, and carry out the idea of “combining theory and practice.”

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In addition, my father was “beaten down” and lived in
the “cow shed,” so they sent me to my grandparents’ home.

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Interviewer: So, you spent more time living with your
grandparents than with your parents.

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Yes. If not for the Cultural Revolution, I would have
spent a relatively longer time with my parents.

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Sometimes I think this might be a big influence that the
Cultural Revolution had on me.

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Within my childhood memories, I don’t have that many
memories of my parents.

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Interviewer: I see. I think your situation was quite
common at that time. Many children grew up with their grandparents.

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Interviewer: From today’s perspective, spending so
little time with one’s parents as a child might have a somewhat
[negative] impact on one’s growth.

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Yes, I agree, it might. Now that I have children of my
own, and my parents come to live with me half of every year, they can see
how I interact with my kids.

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My parents also care about the growth of my children very
much; every time they come across books on childhood education, they buy
them for me.

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One time they told me that they have always felt regret
about [the lack of] my own childhood education.

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Interviewer: Maybe they even feel guilty about spending
too little time with you and not giving you a good childhood, right?

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Interviewer: I absolutely understand such feelings. It’s
really interesting.

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Interviewer: I feel like among the many people I have
interviewed, you are the first one who pointed this out, which was quite a
true experience [during that time].

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Interviewer: Also, generally speaking, for little
children, spending little time with parents during a special period of
growth must have an underlying impact on their lives.

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Yes. But relatively speaking, because I spent more time
with my grandparents, I think I have inherited more from them than from my
parents.

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Interviewer: For sure. Did your grandparents pass
away?

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Yes, they died in the Tangshan Earthquake [1976].

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Interviewer: Oh! They both died during the Tangshan
Earthquake?

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Yes. The situation at that time was this: my paternal
grandparents, my younger sister, and I all lived in Tangshan at that
time.

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My little sister moved from Changli to Tangshan when she
was five, exactly as I had, and we happened to be there during the Tangshan
Earthquake.

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Interviewer: So, you were the only survivor out of these
four?

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Yes.

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Interviewer: Wow. So you lived with your parents after
that?

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Yes. After the Tangshan Earthquake, I went back to
Changli. That was 1976. The earthquake happened in 1976, and then I went
back to Changli.

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Interviewer: That is tragic.

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Yes. Actually, there were a lot of families like us. The
official death toll of the Tangshan Earthquake was 250,000, but I think the
actual number is much bigger than it.

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Interviewer: I didn't imagine that my interview would
[touch on this event].

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Interviewer: Of course, the Tangshan Earthquake was a huge
event that [everyone in China] knew about, but you are the only person I
know who actually experienced it,

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Interviewer: ...and furthermore, you
had three family members die during that time. [Sigh…] OK. Thank you very
much for accepting my interview.

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Thank you.